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Feb 20, 2024 · “If you’re not feeling a vibe over text and not having texting streaks, it’s likely that the chemistry isn’t there." If you and your crush are really vibing, then you'll find that the ...
- Assume Good Intentions (Remove Unconscious Bias) –
- Explore The Emotional Undertones of The Words Themselves –
- Recognize The Balance of Communication Effort –
- Use Your Existing Knowledgebase
- Posture and Position –
- Gestures –
- Proximity and Touch –
- Facial Expressions (Micro-Expressions) –
- Clothing Choice –
- Tone of Voice –
When we mis-interpret text messages, its usually because of a wrong assumption. PsychologyTodayrecommends trying the “Most People Rule”. The ‘most people rule’ takes into account the bigger picture context where ‘most of the time’, ‘most people’ are acting with positive intentions. It is human nature that most people are well-intentioned. And even ...
As an expert in human communication and technology Dr. Tchiki Davis, Ph.D. believes strongly in using the ‘right words’ with the right emotional undertones. When writing for Berkley University, Dr. Davis highlights the importance of understanding the emotional undertones when you’re composing texts or emails, as well as reading text from others. Fo...
Short text responses can be efficient, but they can also lack emotion and lack intent to engage with someone. Yes… No… OK… Got it… Sure… Low effort texts could mean a few different things. Someone doesn’t have time to text at the moment, but don’t want to leave you hanging. They could be driving. They could be in a hurry, or maybe they just don’t w...
I don’t know about you, but I communicate through text differently depending on who I’m texting with. Aight homie… Sounds good… Sure thing… Yea Def… OK… Yes… When I read texts from my Boss, my Finance, and my Dad I literally hear that person’s voice in my head when I read their words from my screen. I know them well enough so I can interpret their ...
Posture and position can communicate a lot without saying anything. As a quick example, cross your armsand say “I guess”. Now stand up with your hands in your back pocket and say “I guess”. The words were the same, but did the ‘vibe’ or tonality of your message change? With your arms crossed saying I guess” comes across as stern, while with your ha...
General body positioning aside, specific hand, head, and foot gestures can be key non-verbal communication indicators. Interpreting this in a text only conversation can be tricky depending on the conversational context.
There’s a difference in how a lot of us speak to a friend vs how we speak to a business associate (and for some us there’s little difference) But in general the average distance for conversations with business associates (or with people who you’re not real familiar with) is 5’ to 12’ apart. While with friends and family the average conversation dis...
Micro-expressions can be difficult to read when you’re standing in front of someone, let along over text. Often micro-expression go consciously unnoticed, but sub-consciously interpreted as a general ‘vibe’ or subtle expression of mood. The easiest way to interpret facial expressions through text is through emoji’s or : ) or lol, and emotional cues...
You shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, but still your presentation can say a lot about you be it a good thing, bad thing, accurate, or not. A clean-shaven guy well dressed in a suit who tells a women she looks beautiful might spark an emotional reaction of blushing. That same guy, saying the same thing, but dressed as a crossing guard, might spar...
Tone of voice is a BIG one, because if done correctly, it can be (somewhat) translated into text. BUT IT CAN ALSO BE EASILY MIS-TRANSLATED! Anger and sarcasm are tough to read in txt messages and emails. It’s all about specific emphasis on words, as well as eyebrow and eye movement. An exclamation point can convey being excited! OR ANGRY ! Or somet...
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- “You must be feeling (fill in the blank).” Figuring out how to comfort a friend over text is something incredibly personal, as it speaks to your bond. Though it can be scary to guess wrong, Fleck says that attempting to intuit someone’s emotions demonstrates not only that you're paying attention, but that you deeply want to understand.
- “This must be particularly (difficult/sad) given X.” Relating the immediate circumstance to a larger picture helps to show the person you’re talking to that you fully get the weight of the situation.
- “Want to talk more about this on the phone?” “This is an example of what we call in therapy ‘taking action’ — it's one of the highest forms of validation, as it demonstrates that you're willing to invest your time or resources in the other person,” Fleck explains.
- “No pressure to respond, just want you to know I'm thinking about you.” While checking in with a friend who is going through a hard time might make them feel cared about, it might also make them feel responsible for keeping you updated.
May 3, 2022 · “If you’re not feeling a vibe over text and not having texting streaks, it’s likely that the chemistry isn’t there." 10 They Say They “Didn’t See Your Message” Often.
Mar 2, 2023 · The psychology of vibe is all about feeling people’s emotions based on their body language, energy and overall presence. We can pick up on these vibes even without making any conscious effort to.
- Farzeen Shaikh
Apr 30, 2023 · How many times have you felt like you can physically feel someone’s energy? I've heard the saying that "over 90% of all communication is non-verbal". Turns out that's absolutely true, and here's a big reason why. We 'physically feel' other peoples 'vibes' because we sub-consciously communicate our emotions though non-verbal body language, tone-of-voice, and psychological motivations.
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Texting is so overrated. Less is more when it comes to texting. It's also hard to tell what the other person is thinking over text. About 80% of communication is through body language. Don't spend too much time thinking about the less than 20% that texting is in communication. Only text when it's necessary.
