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Oct 3, 2017 · Sometimes doubt comes from not wanting to believe—and the reasons for not wanting to believe in God can be many. If a child says they wouldn’t want God to exist, it’s likely a sign that either 1) they have a misunderstanding of who God is (and wouldn’t want that God to exist), or 2) are engaged in behaviors they know aren’t godly and ...
- Apologetics for Parents
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- Apologetics for Parents
Mar 5, 2024 · I want them to understand that this is good, a gift from God, and a calling to think and communicate truth to others. And… it always makes faith a little scarier and more challenging. Their “child-like” faith doesn’t look like other children’s child-like faith.
- Show The Love of Jesus to Your Unbelieving Child!
- Empathize with Your Child’S Doubts and Struggles.
- Ask Truly Curious Questions About Faith.
- Keep The Posture of An Ally, Not An adversary.
- Invite Them to Grade you.
- Pray For Your Child When They Doubt Or Stop Believing in God.
It has been said, “The biggest cause of atheism in our world today is Christians who accept Jesus with their lips but deny Him with their lifestyle.” This may be most evident within the context of parent-child relationships. For your logic to ever be heard and received by your child, your love mustflow from Jesus through you— pervasively, persisten...
Empathy is often a parent’s most powerful portal to influence. Even if you, as the parent, have not fully abandoned faith, almost everyone has had questions and doubts along the way. You may even be questioning your faith as you read this. Being authentic about your faith journey lowers any perceived barriers between you and your child. It can open...
Develop a sense of curiosity about their current view of faith. Ask questions, but don’t be critical. Romans 2:4bsays, “…God’s kindness leads you toward repentance.” God’s kindness—not God’s lecture. Some questions to consider asking your child: 1. What led you to say you don’t believe in God? 2. What about faith has repelled you? 3. What is your i...
“I believe in you.” “I love you no matter what you believe.” “I’m here for you.” These are messages every human longs to hear. Research has shown that when parents give their kids room to spiritually “experiment,” those kids are far more inclined to embrace their parents’ faith someday than those kids whose parents become forceful about religious b...
At the end of the day, what matters as much as what you do is what your kids’ perceptionof it is. If you have an older child, ask them, “On a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 is not at all loving of you and 10 is fully loving you, what number would you give me?” Be prepared for an unexpected answer. Be prepared to keep your defenses down. If you can, ask t...
Pray.I add this to assure you, even though it is common advice, to not minimize the power of prayer. Let it shape both you and your child in ways that bring God’s grace and truth to life. Some will even add some sort of fasting to their prayer strategy. 1. Pray for your own “love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, kindness, ...
He wouldn’t be struggling with issues like the existence of God if he weren’t unusually intelligent and deeply reflective for a child his age. Given this encouraging bent in his personality, it’s not surprising that he’s grappling with questions that don’t occur to many people until much later in life.
- “Thank you for sharing this with me.” There’s no doubt it sends panic into a Christian parent’s heart to hear the words, “I don’t believe in God anymore” or “I’m not sureif I believe in God anymore.”
- “How have you come to that conclusion?” Because we love our kids so much and want to quickly bring them back to truth, there’s a temptation to immediately start offering a response with reasons to believe in God.
- “How long have you felt this way?” This is a helpful diagnostic question because it lets you know the depth of the doubt. In some cases, doubt comes as a knee jerk reaction to a specific event—for example, experiencing an unanswered prayer.
- “If I could give you good evidence to show that God exists, would you want to be convinced He exists?” This is another helpful diagnostic question because it gives you a window into the heart of your child.
If you find yourself struggling with how to explain God’s existence to a child or teenager, I am sending you BIG HUGS right now. But more than that, I want to equip you with an object lesson (God is Real) and tons of resources for helping you navigate the questions your children ask about God’s existence.
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Oct 31, 2024 · 3. Draw Your Child’s Heart to Yours. The shortest distance between your adult child’s heart and Christ is your relationship with him or her. God created family and ordained parents as the primary spiritual influence in the lives of their children. Your influence may look different now that your son or daughter is grown, but it hasn’t ended.
